So how do you get to play golf with your boss? You've tried every damn thing possible and he still wouldn't play with you! Gifts, favors, remarks and praises, all those suck up strategies and your boss still thinks you're a wallflower. But there are also times when they take advantage of it. They know what you're doing so they deliberately refuse. One effective way is to bond with his family. Of course, he won't appreciate the idea of intrusion but what can he do if his wife has found a female companion in your partner. Believe me, after a successful dinner, you'll be treated better. Eventually he will get to trust you more.