Traffic jam is not an excuse to feel sorry for yourself. I hear this all the time, "God give me the courage to accept the things I can't change." Now, that's a real prayer. Instead of moping and whining, you can at least enjoy the time and the ride. You're stuck, but it doesn't mean you won't move on. Do yourself a favor, play some music on your radio to soothe your soul and calm your nerves. Turn your thoughts into something else, like have you given your wife the love that she deserves? Are you able to supervise the needs of your kids? There are plenty of things to think about. Traffic may be life-changing for a minute. Maybe God wants us to slow down a bit. So give yourself a break, for there's nothing you can do anyway!